Childcare, Working Families, and Paid Family Leave

Thinking Biblically About Caring for Children, Supporting Families, Valuing Work, and Sharing the Real Costs of Care

Families with children face responsibilities that are both deeply personal and economically significant.

Children need food.

Housing.

Clothing.

Healthcare.

Education.

Supervision.

Safety.

Time.

Love.

And dependable adults who will care for them.

At the same time, most families need income.

Parents work to provide for their households, and in many families both parents work outside the home. Single parents may carry responsibilities that would ordinarily be shared by two adults. Some parents care for children while also caring for aging parents or family members with disabilities.

Then ordinary life is interrupted.

A baby is born.

A child becomes seriously ill.

A mother experiences complications from childbirth.

A spouse develops cancer.

A parent needs surgery.

An elderly family member can no longer live independently.

Who provides the care?

Who misses work?

Who pays the bills?

Who pays for childcare?

Should employers provide paid family leave?

Should government require it?

Should employees contribute to an insurance program?

Should taxpayers help?

What responsibilities belong to parents and families?

What responsibilities belong to employers?

What role should churches and communities have?

What, if anything, should government do?

These are difficult public-policy questions because legitimate needs exist on several sides.

Christians should resist solutions that pretend one person’s benefit has no cost to anyone else.

We should also resist economic arguments that treat family responsibilities as though they do not matter.

Children Need Care

Children cannot raise themselves.

The younger the child, the greater the need for continuous care and supervision.

Scripture treats the nurture of children as a serious responsibility.

“You shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.” — Deuteronomy 6:7 (NASB 1995)

The immediate context concerns teaching children God’s commands, but the passage also reflects the deeply relational nature of parenting.

Children need adults who are present.

That reality should be remembered whenever we discuss childcare and family policy.

The question is not merely how adults can remain economically productive.

It is also how children can receive safe, stable, loving care while their parents fulfill other responsibilities.

Parents Have the Primary Responsibility for Their Children

Government did not create the family.

Employers did not create the family.

Schools did not create the family.

Parents have a responsibility to care for the children they bring into the world.

Scripture says:

“Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.” — Ephesians 6:1 (NASB 1995)

The passage assumes an ongoing relationship of parental authority and responsibility.

Parents should think seriously about how children will be supported and cared for.

That includes financial provision.

Childcare.

Education.

Healthcare.

Discipline.

Emotional support.

Spiritual formation.

And preparation for adulthood.

Public policy may help families fulfill these responsibilities.

It should be cautious about replacing parents unnecessarily.

Fathers and Mothers Both Have Responsibilities

Discussions about childcare sometimes become discussions primarily about mothers.

Mothers certainly face significant pressures, particularly during pregnancy, childbirth, recovery, breastfeeding, and the early months of a child’s life.

But children have fathers too.

A father does not become optional simply because the parents are unmarried, separated, or divorced.

Fathers have responsibilities toward their children.

Financial responsibilities.

Relational responsibilities.

Practical responsibilities.

Mothers should not automatically be expected to carry the entire burden of childcare while fathers remain uninvolved.

Public policy cannot manufacture loving fathers.

But neither should society casually accept fatherlessness or assume taxpayers should simply replace responsibilities that an able father has abandoned.

Single Parents Face Real Challenges

A two-parent household can often divide responsibilities.

One parent may take a sick child to the doctor while the other works.

Parents may alternate schedules.

One may prepare dinner while the other helps with homework.

One income may temporarily carry the family while the other parent cares for a newborn.

A single parent may have no such backup.

One adult may be responsible for earning income, paying bills, arranging transportation, preparing meals, supervising homework, attending school meetings, caring for sick children, and managing the household.

Recognizing those difficulties is not an argument against personal responsibility.

It is an acknowledgment of reality.

Churches, extended families, employers, communities, and sometimes government programs can help families through circumstances in which responsibilities exceed the resources of one person.

Compassion Should Not Erase Responsibility

It is possible to recognize difficult circumstances without pretending choices do not matter.

Decisions about sex, marriage, parenthood, education, employment, debt, and relationships can have lifelong consequences.

Bringing a child into the world creates responsibilities.

A culture that separates sexual behavior entirely from the possibility of parenthood eventually places enormous burdens on children, parents, extended families, communities, and public programs.

Christians should teach sexual responsibility before pregnancy occurs.

We should encourage healthy marriage.

Responsible fatherhood.

Responsible motherhood.

Education.

Work.

Planning.

And wise decision-making.

But once a child exists, the child is not a mistake to be punished for adult decisions.

We care for the child while continuing to teach responsibility to adults.

Both principles matter.

Childcare Is Real Work

Childcare is expensive partly because caring for children requires people.

Someone must supervise them.

Feed them.

Change diapers.

Comfort them.

Teach them.

Clean the facility.

Maintain safety.

Respond to emergencies.

Communicate with parents.

Purchase supplies.

Meet legal requirements.

And provide appropriate space.

Childcare workers themselves need wages.

Facilities have rent or mortgage expenses.

Insurance costs money.

Utilities cost money.

Food costs money.

Training costs money.

Regulatory compliance costs money.

Therefore, saying “childcare should be affordable” identifies a legitimate need but does not eliminate the underlying cost.

The next question must be:

Affordable to whom, and who pays the difference between what care costs and what the family can afford?

There Is No Free Childcare

If parents do not pay the full cost of childcare, someone else must bear part of that cost.

An employer.

A church.

A charity.

Taxpayers.

Other employees.

Other customers.

A government program.

Or childcare workers through lower compensation.

Calling something free childcare does not make the resources required to provide it free.

Christians concerned about stewardship should ask where the resources come from.

Christians concerned about families should also ask whether those resources could be used in a way that genuinely strengthens families.

Both questions belong together.

The Cost of Childcare Can Make Work Difficult

Consider a parent with two or three young children.

The parent finds a job.

But after paying for childcare, transportation, work clothing, meals, payroll taxes, and other employment expenses, very little additional income remains.

In some cases, returning to work may even leave the household temporarily worse off financially.

That creates a real economic problem.

Simply telling the parent to “get a job” does not address the arithmetic.

But simply paying for childcare indefinitely without considering employment, income growth, family responsibility, or program costs does not address the whole problem either.

Wise policy asks how families can move toward sustainable stability.

Families Make Different Childcare Choices

There is no single childcare arrangement appropriate for every family.

One parent may stay home.

Both parents may work.

Parents may work opposite shifts.

Grandparents may help.

Extended family may provide care.

A neighbor may provide licensed home childcare.

Children may attend a childcare center.

A church may operate a preschool.

Families may combine several arrangements.

Public policy should recognize that families differ.

A program designed only around one model of family life may unintentionally disadvantage families making another legitimate choice.

For example, assistance tied exclusively to institutional childcare may offer little benefit to a family making financial sacrifices so one parent can remain home.

Fair policy should at least consider these differences.

Grandparents and Extended Families Often Help

Government statistics cannot fully measure the contribution of extended families.

Grandparents pick children up from school.

Aunts provide childcare.

Siblings help one another.

Families share housing.

Relatives provide transportation.

Grandparents sometimes raise grandchildren when parents cannot.

These arrangements demonstrate why family and community relationships matter.

Strong families can provide forms of care that government programs cannot easily duplicate.

But not every family has healthy relatives nearby.

Some grandparents are still working.

Some are elderly or disabled.

Some families are geographically separated.

Some relationships are unsafe.

Family support should be encouraged where appropriate without assuming every family has it available.

Churches Can Help Working Families

Churches can have meaningful roles.

A church may operate childcare or preschool programs.

Provide scholarships.

Help a family during a temporary crisis.

Bring meals after childbirth.

Provide transportation.

Support a single parent.

Organize volunteers.

Help grandparents raising grandchildren.

Provide parenting classes.

Offer marriage support.

Mentor fathers.

Assist families during illness.

Provide emergency financial help.

Or simply become the kind of community in which people know one another well enough to recognize when a family is overwhelmed.

The church should not discuss family policy only in terms of what government ought to do.

Christians should also ask what we can do.

Employers Have Legitimate Interests

Employers need workers.

Work must be completed.

Customers expect service.

Patients need care.

Students need teachers.

Construction schedules must be met.

Small businesses may have only a few employees.

When one worker is absent for weeks, someone else must perform the work.

The employer may need to pay overtime.

Hire temporary help.

Delay projects.

Reduce services.

Or distribute additional work among coworkers.

These costs are real.

Therefore, discussions of family leave should not portray employers as automatically uncaring simply because extended paid leave creates difficulties.

A small family-owned business may face challenges very different from those of a corporation employing tens of thousands of people.

Policy should recognize that difference.

Good Employers Also Recognize That Workers Have Families

Workers are not machines.

Employees have babies.

Children get sick.

Spouses develop cancer.

Parents die.

Families experience emergencies.

An employer who treats every family responsibility as an inconvenience may lose good employees and create unnecessary hardship.

Flexible scheduling, remote work where possible, paid time off, predictable hours, temporary reduced schedules, leave policies, and compassionate management can help employees remain productive over the long term.

Sometimes family-friendly practices are not merely charitable.

They are good business.

Employees may remain with employers who treat them fairly during difficult seasons.

Paid Family Leave Addresses a Real Need

Imagine a mother who has just given birth.

Her body needs time to recover.

Her newborn needs care.

If she has no paid leave, she may face a difficult choice:

Return to work before she is physically ready,

or

lose income needed for rent, food, utilities, and other necessities.

A father may also need time to help care for the mother and baby.

Similar problems arise when a child becomes seriously ill or a spouse requires major surgery.

Paid family leave attempts to address a real problem.

The disagreement is usually not over whether these circumstances matter.

The disagreement concerns how the cost should be shared.

Paid Leave Is Not Free

If a worker receives income while temporarily not working, someone provides that income.

The employer may pay directly.

Employees may contribute to an insurance fund.

Employers and employees may share the cost.

Taxpayers may fund a government program.

A public insurance system may distribute the cost broadly.

Each approach has advantages and disadvantages.

Employer-funded leave may provide direct support but place significant burdens on some businesses.

Payroll-funded insurance spreads risk but reduces take-home pay or increases labor costs.

Tax-funded programs spread costs more broadly but require public revenue.

There is no solution in which no one pays.

The policy question is how costs and benefits should be distributed.

Small Businesses Deserve Special Consideration

A corporation with thousands of employees may be able to absorb an absence relatively easily.

A business with four employees may not.

Suppose one employee takes twelve weeks of paid leave.

The business may have to pay that employee while also paying another worker to perform the job.

That may be financially difficult or impossible for some small employers.

This does not mean the employee’s family need is unimportant.

It means policy design should consider business size, funding mechanisms, exemptions, insurance approaches, and other ways of avoiding disproportionate burdens.

Compassion for families should not require indifference toward the people trying to keep a small business alive.

Coworkers Can Bear Hidden Costs

Policies can affect people who are not immediately visible.

When an employee takes leave, coworkers may work additional hours.

Cover shifts.

Delay vacations.

Take on extra clients.

Or perform unfamiliar duties.

Good management can reduce these burdens.

Insurance programs can address financial costs.

Temporary employees may help.

But the impact on coworkers should still be considered.

Public policy frequently involves people beyond the obvious beneficiary and payer.

That is why Christians should ask about unintended consequences.

Paid Leave Can Benefit Employers Too

Costs are only one side of the equation.

Paid leave may help employers retain experienced workers.

Replacing an employee can be expensive.

Recruiting.

Interviewing.

Training.

Lost productivity.

And the time required for a new employee to become fully effective all have costs.

A worker who can take temporary leave may return rather than resign permanently.

Therefore, some employers voluntarily provide paid leave because they believe it improves recruitment, retention, morale, and productivity.

Economic questions should examine both costs and benefits.

Government Mandates Require Special Care

There is a difference between an employer voluntarily offering a benefit and government requiring every covered employer to provide it.

Government mandates may establish protections workers would not otherwise receive.

But mandates also impose costs.

Those costs may appear as:

Higher prices.

Lower wages.

Reduced hiring.

Fewer hours.

Smaller profits.

Reduced benefits elsewhere.

Automation.

Or business closures.

That does not prove a mandate is wrong.

It means the costs should be counted rather than ignored.

Christians should ask whether the public benefit justifies the requirement and whether the policy is designed in the least harmful practical way.

Public Insurance Is Another Possible Approach

Instead of requiring individual employers to pay an employee’s full salary during leave, some policies use an insurance model.

Workers, employers, taxpayers, or some combination contribute to a larger fund.

When a qualifying family or medical event occurs, the fund replaces part of the worker’s income.

This spreads risk across many people.

Insurance models can reduce the direct burden upon a particular employer.

But they still have costs.

Contribution rates must be sufficient.

Eligibility must be defined.

Fraud must be controlled.

Programs must be administered.

Benefits must be sustainable.

Christians do not need to begin with the assumption that such a program is either obviously biblical or obviously unbiblical.

We can examine how it actually works.

How Much Leave Is Enough?

Even after deciding that paid leave should exist, difficult questions remain.

How many weeks?

Full pay or partial pay?

Only childbirth?

Adoption?

Foster placement?

A sick child?

A sick spouse?

An elderly parent?

The worker’s own illness?

What qualifies as serious illness?

Should the employee have worked a minimum amount of time first?

Should very small employers be treated differently?

Can leave be taken intermittently?

How is abuse prevented?

These are prudential policy questions.

Scripture provides principles about family, work, compassion, justice, and stewardship.

It does not give Congress a specific number of weeks for family leave.

Christians may therefore reach different conclusions.

Maternity and Paternity Leave Are Both Important

A mother has unique physical realities connected with pregnancy, childbirth, recovery, and sometimes breastfeeding.

Those realities should not be ignored in the name of treating every situation identically.

Fathers also matter.

A father can care for the newborn.

Help the mother recover.

Care for older children.

Attend medical appointments.

Establish early bonds with the baby.

And share responsibilities that should not automatically fall entirely upon the mother.

Family policy should encourage responsible fatherhood rather than treating fathers as optional.

Supporting Mothers Should Begin Before Crisis

Public discussion sometimes begins after a woman is already overwhelmed.

Christians should think earlier.

Healthy relationships matter.

Marriage matters.

Education matters.

Choosing a responsible partner matters.

Sexual responsibility matters.

Financial preparation matters.

Understanding the responsibilities of parenthood matters.

None of these guarantees an easy life.

A responsible husband may die.

A marriage may end despite one spouse’s faithfulness.

A job may disappear.

A child may be born with serious medical needs.

But wise decisions can reduce some preventable hardships.

Teaching responsibility before crisis is part of compassion.

We Should Not Shame Mothers Who Need Help

At the same time, Christians must be careful with our words.

A mother may be unmarried.

Divorced.

Widowed.

Abandoned.

Escaping abuse.

Recovering from poor decisions.

Or carrying responsibilities she never expected to carry alone.

Whatever brought her to the present situation, she and her children need to be treated as people created in God’s image.

Grace does not require pretending choices were wise.

It means we do not make past failure a reason to deny present compassion or the possibility of a better future.

Fathers Who Abandon Children Should Be Held Responsible

Compassion for single mothers should not allow absent fathers to disappear from the discussion.

If an able father leaves a mother and children without support, the problem is not simply that the mother needs government assistance.

There is also a failure of paternal responsibility.

Government may appropriately enforce lawful child-support obligations.

Churches should teach responsible fatherhood.

Families should encourage men to accept responsibility.

Culture should not celebrate sexual behavior while treating the resulting children as someone else’s financial obligation.

Children deserve better.

Welfare Policy Can Affect Family Decisions

Assistance programs should be examined for the incentives they create.

If a benefit structure unintentionally makes marriage financially costly, policymakers should examine that.

If earning additional income causes a family to lose childcare assistance so abruptly that the family becomes worse off, that should be examined.

If an absent parent can avoid responsibility while taxpayers carry the cost, that should be examined.

Recognizing incentives does not mean assuming people make every family decision according to benefit formulas.

Human behavior is much more complicated.

But incentives still matter.

Wise policy attempts to help families without unnecessarily discouraging behaviors that contribute to long-term stability.

Childcare Assistance Can Help Parents Become Independent

Childcare assistance is sometimes criticized as simply another government benefit.

But in some circumstances it can enable work.

A parent may be capable and willing to work.

A job may be available.

The only obstacle may be that childcare costs nearly as much as the job pays.

Temporary childcare assistance can make employment possible.

As the parent’s earnings increase, assistance can gradually decline.

If designed well, the program can function as a bridge toward greater independence.

The details matter.

Avoid the Benefits Cliff

Suppose a mother receives childcare assistance because her income is below an eligibility limit.

She receives a modest raise.

Her income rises slightly above the limit.

Suddenly she loses thousands of dollars in childcare assistance.

Her raise has made her poorer.

That is a badly structured incentive.

Benefits that phase out gradually can sometimes reduce this problem.

Christians concerned about responsibility should want people to be rewarded rather than punished for increasing earnings.

Christians concerned about compassion should recognize that abrupt benefit loss can destabilize families.

Both concerns point toward better policy design.

Employers Can Help Beyond Paid Leave

Family-friendly employment does not consist only of formal leave programs.

Predictable scheduling can help parents arrange childcare.

Advance notice of work schedules can reduce chaos.

Flexible start times may help with school schedules.

Remote work may be possible for some jobs.

Job sharing may work in some settings.

Part-time transitions after childbirth may help some parents.

Emergency leave banks may help coworkers support one another.

Not every option works in every occupation.

A nurse cannot always work remotely.

A factory cannot necessarily change production schedules around every employee.

But creativity can sometimes solve problems without requiring a single national solution for every workplace.

Churches Can Support New Parents Directly

Churches often have opportunities that require no legislation.

Bring meals.

Provide diapers.

Help with childcare.

Offer rides.

Sit with a sick child while a parent handles another responsibility.

Support foster and adoptive families.

Help a parent find work.

Connect families with community resources.

Mentor young fathers.

Teach parenting skills.

Provide marriage support.

Help with emergency bills.

Visit a mother experiencing postpartum isolation.

Include single parents rather than allowing them to feel invisible.

Practical Christian community can make family burdens lighter.

Family Leave Also Involves Elder Care

Family caregiving is not only about young children.

Adults may need time away from work to care for aging parents.

A mother develops dementia.

A father has a stroke.

A spouse begins cancer treatment.

An elderly parent can no longer drive.

Families suddenly face medical appointments, transportation, medication management, meals, finances, and decisions about long-term care.

As the population ages, these responsibilities become increasingly important.

The same questions arise:

What should families do?

What flexibility should employers provide?

What role should insurance have?

What should government require or fund?

How can churches support caregivers?

There will not always be one simple answer.

Caring for Family Is Valuable Work Even When It Is Unpaid

Economic statistics do not capture everything valuable.

A parent caring for a baby at home performs work.

A daughter caring for an elderly mother performs work.

A grandparent watching grandchildren performs work.

A spouse caring for a husband after surgery performs work.

No paycheck may be exchanged.

But real value is being created.

Christians should not measure human contribution only by taxable income.

Family caregiving is part of the fabric that holds communities together.

Policies Should Not Assume Every Family Is the Same

Families differ.

Income differs.

Work differs.

Health differs.

Number of children differs.

Family support differs.

Geography differs.

Childcare availability differs.

Some parents strongly prefer home care.

Others need or prefer center-based care.

Some employers can provide extensive benefits.

Others operate on very narrow margins.

A wise policy should leave room for legitimate differences where possible.

One-size-fits-all solutions can create unintended problems.

Businesses Need Workers, and Workers Need Families

Public debate often divides employers and employees into opposing camps.

But they depend upon each other.

Businesses need reliable workers.

Workers need productive businesses capable of paying wages.

Families need income.

Children need care.

Employers need future generations of educated, responsible workers and customers.

Healthy communities need stable families and healthy businesses.

The goal should not be to make one side defeat the other.

It should be to develop arrangements that allow work, family, and economic life to function together as well as reasonably possible.

Christians May Reach Different Policy Conclusions

One Christian may support a national paid-family-leave program.

Another may prefer state programs.

Another may favor tax incentives for employers.

Another may prefer private insurance.

Another may favor employer flexibility with fewer government mandates.

Another may support childcare subsidies targeted toward low-income working families.

Another may favor tax relief that allows parents greater freedom to choose their own childcare arrangements.

These Christians may share the same biblical convictions about children, family, work, compassion, responsibility, and stewardship while disagreeing about policy.

That is not necessarily spiritual compromise.

It may be a disagreement about economics, implementation, tradeoffs, and prudence.

Ask Better Questions

Instead of beginning with:

“Which political party supports this?”

Christians can ask:

What problem are we trying to solve?

Who has the primary responsibility?

Who is unable to meet that responsibility without help?

What would genuinely help the child?

What would help the family become more stable?

What would help the parent remain employed?

Who pays?

How much does it cost?

How does it affect small businesses?

How does it affect coworkers?

Does it encourage responsible fatherhood and motherhood?

Does it unintentionally discourage marriage or work?

Does assistance phase out in a way that rewards progress?

Could families be given more choices rather than fewer?

What can churches and communities do?

How will we know whether the policy works?

Those questions move us beyond slogans.

Supporting Families Is About More Than Government Benefits

Strong families are built through much more than public policy.

Faithfulness.

Commitment.

Responsible sexuality.

Marriage.

Fatherhood.

Motherhood.

Work.

Sacrifice.

Planning.

Forgiveness.

Extended family.

Church community.

Friendship.

Wise financial decisions.

Education.

And neighbors helping neighbors.

Government can influence some conditions surrounding families.

It cannot manufacture healthy relationships.

It cannot force a father to love his children.

It cannot make a marriage faithful.

It cannot replace a grandmother’s embrace.

It cannot reproduce the community of a healthy church.

Public policy matters.

But it should never be mistaken for the whole solution.

Christians Should Care About the Child, the Parent, the Worker, and the Employer

Many political arguments focus on only one person.

Biblical wisdom encourages us to widen the view.

Consider the baby.

The mother.

The father.

The single parent.

The childcare worker.

The employer.

The coworker.

The taxpayer.

The small-business owner.

The grandparent.

The person caring for an elderly parent.

The family trying to become financially independent.

Each may have legitimate concerns.

Good public policy will not eliminate every tradeoff.

But wise Christians should at least recognize the people carrying those tradeoffs.

Compassion and Responsibility Belong Together

A young mother may genuinely need help.

Help her.

A father is capable of supporting his child but refuses.

Hold him responsible.

A parent wants to work but childcare makes work financially impossible.

Look for a bridge.

A family can provide for itself.

Encourage responsibility.

A business wants to support employees but cannot afford months of additional payroll.

Consider that reality.

A worker faces a medical crisis and needs temporary time away.

Consider that reality too.

This is what balanced thinking requires.

Not choosing compassion or responsibility.

Not choosing families or businesses.

Not choosing immediate help or long-term stability.

We ask how these legitimate concerns can be held together wisely.

Questions for Personal Reflection

Do I recognize that caring for children is primarily a parental responsibility?

Do I also recognize that families sometimes face circumstances they cannot handle alone?

Do I expect mothers to carry responsibilities that should also belong to fathers?

Do I believe fathers should remain financially and relationally responsible for their children even when they do not live with them?

Can I talk about sexual and parental responsibility without treating children or struggling parents with contempt?

Do I understand why childcare costs so much?

When someone proposes free or subsidized childcare, do I ask who actually bears the cost?

Do I recognize that childcare assistance can sometimes make employment possible?

Do I understand how a benefits cliff can punish someone for earning more?

Do I consider the needs of small businesses when evaluating paid-leave mandates?

Do I also consider the real hardship workers experience when they have no paid leave during childbirth or serious family illness?

Do I consider the effects of leave policies on coworkers as well as employers and employees?

Do I recognize unpaid family caregiving as valuable work?

Do I think families should have reasonable freedom to choose among different childcare arrangements?

Do I recognize that grandparents and extended families make enormous contributions that public policy often does not measure?

Do I ask what churches can do before assuming every problem belongs to government?

Can I distinguish a biblical principle from my preferred public policy?

Can I respect another Christian who shares my concern for families but reaches a different conclusion about childcare or paid leave?

Am I willing personally to help a working family, single parent, new mother, father, grandparent, or family caregiver who needs support?

A Prayer for Children, Working Families, and Caregivers

Father, thank You for the gift of children and families.

Give mothers and fathers wisdom, patience, strength, and faithfulness.

Help parents accept the responsibilities that come with bringing children into the world.

Strengthen marriages.

Strengthen fathers.

Strengthen mothers.

Give special encouragement to single parents carrying responsibilities that would ordinarily be shared.

Protect children from bearing burdens created by adult irresponsibility.

Provide trustworthy care for children while parents work.

Bless childcare workers who care for children each day.

Help them receive fair treatment and adequate support for the important work they perform.

Give wisdom to employers.

Help them recognize that workers have families and responsibilities beyond the workplace.

Give wisdom to employees.

Help them work faithfully and use family benefits responsibly.

Give special wisdom to small-business owners who want to care for employees while keeping their businesses financially healthy.

Guide lawmakers considering childcare assistance and family-leave policies.

Help them count the real costs.

Consider unintended consequences.

Protect vulnerable families.

Encourage work.

Strengthen responsible fatherhood and motherhood.

Avoid policies that unnecessarily discourage marriage, employment, saving, or advancement.

Help programs function as bridges toward stability whenever possible.

Give wisdom to families caring for aging parents, sick spouses, disabled children, and other loved ones with significant needs.

Strengthen grandparents and extended families who quietly provide countless hours of care.

Show churches how to help.

Make us communities that bring meals, provide rides, care for children, mentor parents, encourage fathers, support marriages, assist caregivers, and walk beside families during difficult seasons.

Keep us from using families as political talking points.

Help us see actual people.

The exhausted mother.

The responsible father.

The struggling single parent.

The newborn baby.

The childcare worker.

The overwhelmed employer.

The coworker carrying additional responsibilities.

The grandparent raising grandchildren.

The adult child caring for an aging parent.

Give us compassion for each one.

Teach us to hold compassion and responsibility together.

Help us value work without neglecting family.

Help us support families without pretending resources are unlimited.

Help us count the cost while remembering that people are more important than numbers.

And may our homes, churches, workplaces, communities, and public policies reflect wisdom, justice, responsibility, mercy, and love.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

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